God is love
God is love (updated with more thoughts...)
Rather than let your thoughts, and your world revolve around that person of your heart's desire, why not let God woo that person for you?
You know what, God desires much more to provide that ideal life partner for you than you are.In fact, He has gone way ahead of you and saw to it that you shall have a blessed marriage and family life. He already saw your grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Dear brothers and sisters, you are precious to God - you are His Beloved.
The Apostle Paul says it like this in Ephesians 3: 13 - 19: "Therefore I ask that you do not lose heart at my tribulations for you, which is your glory.
"For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, (Ephesians 3: 14 - 15)
"...that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; (Ephesians 3: 16 - 17a)
"that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height - to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God." (Ephesians 3: 17b - 19)
The width, length, depth and height of God's love is measured by the Cross - that He should let His Beloved Son be subjected to extreme torture, pain, sufferings, sickness, all manner of disease, to be sin for us on the Cross, that you may be redeemed, scantified (which means to be set apart), and raised with Christ to the status of Son-ship!!!
Selah (Pause)
Let me say this again - dearest brothers and sisters, YOU are PRECIOUS to Abba Father, YOU are His BELOVED!!!
Meditate on that love, dwell on it for a while.
In fact, the Apostle Paul is so convinced of the love that Jesus has for all of us that he writes in Romans 8:35 :"Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?
"Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. (Romans 8:37)
"For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come," (Romans 8:38)
"nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8:39)
There's a Chinese vernacular saying that goes like this "You're choosing others but others are choosing you too" when they advise people against being too picky about their life partner.
This statement is both true and not true.It's true because the world sees relationships as such, but the Lord Jesus says it himself in John 15: 19: " If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world..."
The above vernacular saying hence do not apply to us anymore. Because the Lord chose us even before the foundations of the world, even before you were conceived in your mother's womb.
The Lord set you apart, raised you up to the status of royal kings and priests - a sanctuary and temple worthy of the Holy Spirit, worthy of His love.
"And we have known and believed the love that God has for us. God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him. (1 John 4:16)
"Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness in the day of judgment; because as He is, so are we in this world. (1 John 4:17)
"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love. (1 John 4:18)
"We love Him because He first loved us. (1 John 4:19)
And He says to you and me: “Let love find you” and 1 John 4:8 tells us that “He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.”
So, let God (love) find you!!!

